Strange to look at life sideways. Strange, but oh so imperative. It stretches the muscles in our eyes in a way that doesn't feel natural. However, if ever we really want to make changes in this world we live in, and in our own individual lives, we must look off to the side for the options. Conformity, the lemming kind, is the death knell of our society. The routine of sameness depletes our energy, sending us down a heavy footed path of apathy, dulling our senses. What always perks up the brain, kisses the heart, zippity dips the pace is a fresh perspective. Fresh awareness.....
Lemon scented fresh.
First kiss fresh.
After the rain cool breeze fresh.
Puppies pouncing in the snow fresh.
Pussy willow promise fresh
Blooming pink blossom fresh
New slivery moon fresh
Stepping out of the shower rinsed and naked fresh.
We drop the blinders, take off the armour, stretch out our yawnings, open our minds, and look around? Suddenly our way of seeing, which became our way of being, alters. We shift. In a blink. Aha!
Here's a NEW way of looking at this issue!
Here's some light seeping through the dark realities of our sufferings
Here's a possibility!
But, am I willing to make the shift? Do I have a choice here? MAN! What a frightening thought!
Life is easier to stay confined in a pocket of protection, away from new perspectives. It seems safer, more predictable, more sane. Yeah, right! What an illusion that is. Still, we hold on tight to what we consider is the truth. It's what we know. It's what we built our lives on.... those beliefs that you had some control over the events in your life. Maybe that's the purpose of those "heart grenades" that often get lofted at us? To wake us up? To make us question everything around us?? To shake the inner stuffing loose. To help us lose our balance in order to feel vulnerable? When we are shook up enough and the vulnerability is ripe for the weeping, there is no more truth to hold onto. What is left is an opportunity to look at life from another vantage point.
God, will you help me do this? Give me the strength to look at this life sideways...... to stand it on its ear.... to relax enough to let go of the ruminations..... to open the valve and let the possiblities flow upon the shiny rocks which I continue to stub my toes on!
Shut off the valve of possibility, our whole being dries up. Turn it on full blast and the pools of creativity fill up and up and up with the cleansing spirits to quench the thirst we sometimes didn't even know existed. At first, when new perspectives arise, we want to gulp it down....God, we're so thirsty for answers, for comfort, for colour! When we first realize that how we are living, doing, being is not working, we want to change it ASAP! Because of desperation and the motivation to douse the flames licking at our shame, we shuffle forward without taking the time to learn how to use our refreshed senses properly. We need time to "retool" as well as to assess whether this new perspective is the right fit. An oasis of water flowing to a thirsty person wounded by a heart grenade can be just as dangerous as staying in a pocket of protection.....
hmmmmm............maybe we need to look both ways, allowing the green twinkle of our eyes to cast beyond the first glance..... looking beyond the sideways just at our feet......... over the horizon sideways... leap of faith sideways..... There is an art to it. But there are no clear cut linear instructions. You have to figure out your own glancing, looking, observing, assessing, glimpsing, gazing. Not alone. You don't have to learn this alone. There is a Holy Spirit all around us to guide us.
Sometimes we are the last to know how dehydrated and thirsty we really are. Until we learn the art of looking sideways. If we allow it to, it can soothe the wounds left by the blast of a heart grenade. Late night loneliness does not have to smell like napalm. It can be soothed by the aroma of perfuming comfort and the essence of insensing courage.......... let me turn my head to the left..... to the right.... Now? let me look up and out.......... and what do I see? Delicious possibilities.
Tell me...... What do YOU see when you look sideways?
ps. This post was inspired by two things. I found myself in the valley of emotions today, so much so that I think I need to get my hormones checked! The dips are too severe and I'm now thinking that there could be a medical reason feeding this trip I'm on. Heaven help anyone who goes near a PMS-ing 49 year old in the throes of a divorce. You have no idea how ugly it looks from the inside! But, I'm relieved to report that I'm pulling out of this mass of snottiness and will be myself once again tomorrow. (thank you Mavis!!)
I am also thinking a great deal about the upcoming Greenbelt Festival which I had the pleasure and the opportunity to attend last year. In some respects, it was life changing.... many shifts occured and insights were gathered. Sadly, the one which was so predominantly recharged in my being.... to return home from the festival with a clear desire to work through the issues in my marriage, I wasn't even able to kickstart. It was over. I just didn't know it.
However, on a spiritual level, the depth of my faith and interest in pursuing this path of believing strengthened beyond my expectations. Consequently, it has provided a foundation I sorely depended on last spring and continue to. So, I wish I was going again this year....... to Greenbelt. To refresh, to remind myself, to recharge, to remember, to reflect and to have some really really good fun with a group of people who are a part of my life and my heart. When I think of them fondly, their beautiful faces and friendliness feed my soul with such delicious soulfood.
The theme for the Greenbelt Festival this year is "The Art of Looking Sideways..." It's such an inspirational theme.... and fits nicely with how I try my best to look beyond the sides of my life. The creative side of me, whether it's writing or photography, or even counselling (there is a lot of creativity and openness in the field of counselling) embraces this theme wholeheartedly. So, I thought I would try to capture my feelings of this day as well as my thoughts on the theme. I guess you could say, I was a multi-tasking blogger tonight. And it worked.
I looked sideways.
And you know what I found?
MY SMILE! I found MY SMILE!
The little bugger was smirking
off to the side!
The little bugger was smirking
off to the side!
Love to all of you............ xxxx