ready for a rant? It's been awhile.................no fluffy stuff today.............
Last week, I had a chance to chat with Charles, our local blogger extraordinaire who manages to sniff out stories and stir up anxieties at the legislature with his bloggie threats and his trusty digital camera. He was telling me a story about a woman who lives in the same rooming house as he does. This woman was very upset because she had just changed banks and found out that her new bank automatically took $50.00 out of her account. Given that she only receives about $500.00 social assistance for the whole month to pay her rent, utilities, food and other life necessities, 50 bucks is HUGE! She was livid, as was our rabel rouser Charles who took this woman down to the bank to find out what was going on. At the last minute, the woman refused to enter the building. Too afraid and too worn down from day to day living on welfare to make an attempt to confront and to find out why the bank withdrew the amount, the woman balked. It was too much for her.
Last week, I had a chance to chat with Charles, our local blogger extraordinaire who manages to sniff out stories and stir up anxieties at the legislature with his bloggie threats and his trusty digital camera. He was telling me a story about a woman who lives in the same rooming house as he does. This woman was very upset because she had just changed banks and found out that her new bank automatically took $50.00 out of her account. Given that she only receives about $500.00 social assistance for the whole month to pay her rent, utilities, food and other life necessities, 50 bucks is HUGE! She was livid, as was our rabel rouser Charles who took this woman down to the bank to find out what was going on. At the last minute, the woman refused to enter the building. Too afraid and too worn down from day to day living on welfare to make an attempt to confront and to find out why the bank withdrew the amount, the woman balked. It was too much for her.
Charles, went in anyways to talk to a bank Manager on behalf of his friend only to be told that it was confidential and he would have to bring the woman in. It was enough of an ice breaker that when Charles went back outside, he was able to talk her into meeting with the Manager who according to Charles was a very friendly nice woman. Things were sorted out, and the 50 bucks was returned to her account. Apologies were in order. It was an empowering feel good story. Of course, Charles took a photo of the Banker and his friend for posterity.
GOOD on ya, Charles!!
GOOD on ya, Charles!!
The story led to our own conversation about how quickly one's confidence and sense of empowerment goes out the window when one is on social assistance. Everyday survival life is too difficult that there isn't the energy or the motivation to fight for rights, to stand up for yourself, and to jump through the many hoops bureaucracy and businesses set up and label "service delivery." When one is trying to make ends meet until the end of the month on a measley amount......when one is worried that there won't be any money left for food for the kids, or whether or not the hydro bill is going to be paid in full or if the hydro company will cut the power, whether or not one can scratch together some money so their child can attend the end of year field trip, or that new summer sneakers can be purchased etc, etc, etc.........the thought of fighting the big bank, or the case worker, or of filling out yet another application for money to fix up their home so the rotting floors and mold are removed.....it's just too much.
Bureaucracy and big business are just plain bullies. Though you and I may be able to fight the good fight....to let our voices be heard......to stand up for our rights, there are MANY others who are worn to the core and have lost their voice. And it's not just the welfare system......it is the healthcare system, the mental health system, the banks and loans companies, some community based services, social services etc.......
Time and again, I meet with people who are fighting such huge fights, with no support or power to get their needs met. Time and again, I go out to a home to complete a social assessment only to spend a good hour listening to their unbelievable stories of frustration in trying to deal with the infamous red tape. It overwhelms them......and astounds them to a point where they just give up because no one seems to go to bat for them.
What seems to happen is that if a person puts up a little fuss, they get labelled a troublemaker. If the person takes it a little farther, they are completely ignored. It's not until they raise such a ruckus by contacting their local politician, or phoning the media or at least throwing down the threat gauntlet so hard that they are taken seriously when someone somehow somewhere cuts through the bullshit red tape. The squeakiest wheel always gets the grease!
What seems to happen is that if a person puts up a little fuss, they get labelled a troublemaker. If the person takes it a little farther, they are completely ignored. It's not until they raise such a ruckus by contacting their local politician, or phoning the media or at least throwing down the threat gauntlet so hard that they are taken seriously when someone somehow somewhere cuts through the bullshit red tape. The squeakiest wheel always gets the grease!
I spent this morning with a young woman who has survived heinous abuses, chronic health issues, and was put on Dilaudid when she was 17 years old because of a sore back from being beaten by a man who basically kept her to himself since she was 12 years old (where were her parents, you ask??? hmmmm...good question.....long story). She is presently trying to kick her addiction through the Methadone program (which I visited for the first time today and I must say I was VERY impressed with the friendly non-judgemental service the staff are providing. It was a breath of fresh air that's for sure) and find another place to live because her present "room" in a house in a respectable neighbourhood is filled with mold and bugs.......so bad that she contracted a wicked infection in her lymph glands and breast and was hospitalized for a month following surgery. No one was helping her. She kept asking and asking for help and no one had the where with all to help her apply for subsidized housing until she and I first met on Friday.
Part of the problem is that she is very difficult to contact because she locks herself in her room to keep away from the filth of the rest of the basement she shares with other tenants and has the fans on to keep the stench away. As well, she is fighting to stay clean from street drugs and Dilaudid. she travels daily to the Methadone clinic (which is stupidly located in the same area as the homeless shelter and community kitchen and the area in the city where the most drug transactions and addicted individuals hang out) and then back home again. She wants to get better because she has an 8 year old son whom she wants very much to be a Mom to. She also wants to be a candidate for the Interferon treatments given to Hepatitis C patients. She can't do this until she more stable physically and emotionally.
This woman knows the underbelly of the city like the back of her hand and has survived it. She knows how to fight for her own survival. She is a fighter, and doesn't come across as a victim. Life has continued to try to rip her to shreds and yet, what I heard was a strong willed very intelligent woman who knows what she wants. She has terrific street smarts despite her wounds. AND YET..............she was losing the fight because bureaucracy was choking her with red tape.
Do you know how long it took to get her on the list for housing? 5 minutes. She will be in a brand new spotlessly clean apartment by the beginning of next month. THIS will help her immensely with respect to her healing. In another 5 minutes, she was offered a bus card to be able to travel to the clinic everyday. In another 5 minutes, she started packing up her belongings with a new sense of energy. We had a productive morning, both of us learning a great deal..........!!
Do you know how long it took to get her on the list for housing? 5 minutes. She will be in a brand new spotlessly clean apartment by the beginning of next month. THIS will help her immensely with respect to her healing. In another 5 minutes, she was offered a bus card to be able to travel to the clinic everyday. In another 5 minutes, she started packing up her belongings with a new sense of energy. We had a productive morning, both of us learning a great deal..........!!
After I dropped her off at her disgusting hovel of a home, I seethed...........fuck, I was mad.......and performed my best imitation of a weathered old crotchedy sailor, swearing up a storm before I tucked it back in and diplomatically entered the office of this woman's case worker. Well, maybe I didn't tuck it all in! I had to make my point.
Ok.....so that was my morning. This afternoon? A unique version of the same story.
If one tries and tries and tries........................and TRIES to jump through the hoops all the while doing everything that is asked of them and still hits a red tape brick wall time and time again, well, wouldn't you be absolutely worn out?
Ok.....so that was my morning. This afternoon? A unique version of the same story.
If one tries and tries and tries........................and TRIES to jump through the hoops all the while doing everything that is asked of them and still hits a red tape brick wall time and time again, well, wouldn't you be absolutely worn out?
There is no need of this bullshit. Especially in a city the size of this one. Well, anywhere. Let's get real and deal with this incessant bullshit by helping others jump through the hoops and heal!!
9 comments:
Thanks for the kind words of wisdom. Even if there's a few bad words...lol....I didn't know ya had it in ya.....
Which reminds moi? I got to write a blog on that issue this evening......
Yes, when you're poor? You lose all energy to fight....
This fighting will one day give me a huge heart attack.....lol
Thanks again....
You're very welcome Charles. I love chatting it up with you. Next time I see you, I have a story to share....
as for the post and my language? Well, I decided it was high time I squashed your idea that I'm some kind of new age fundamentalist. :)
cheers to you......
You are a trooper and fight the good fight it pisses me off that red tape does this to everyone as you said, its not so bad for those who have the energy to fight but for those who dont, they are blessed to have people like you and Charles.
Love to you Trooper Gal xx
Very acute, Awareness.
Now take that anger and frustration at omnipotent bureaucracy and its utter indifference, and marinate it for three hundred years.
Welcome to Caledonia.
hey shaz....yeah the fight continues today as I tried to unravel some of it, and was given a lecture on how I may be seeing things with rose tinted glasses...a lecture I have heard MANY times and which ALWAYS pisses me off. you see, I have been painted with a pollyanna brush by some obnoxious self-righteous people who can never see the good in people.
However, I also received an email last night from a friend who is struggling to get help with childcare $$ for her son who is disabled and hospitalized often and over the age when childcare is normally not needed. She was in trying to deal with this last Friday...and I just happened to be moseying by at the right time....when she had been refused. this is a person who has fought MANY battles both in and out of the health care system, and school system etc..... the refusal meant that she would have to quit her job this summer.... I told her to "up the grease" on the wheel.....which she did and guess what????? She is getting some help! Her email reinforced my resolve.....
hey Babulican.... :) yeah, it makes me break out in song......
All My Lifes a Circle....or Will the Circle be Unbroken.... honestly, it's a never ending, longstanding eternal circle jerk.
you talking about Caledonia on the Grand River, or beloved Scotland? Or perhaps an ethereal Caledonia?
Heh. I guess an argument could be made for both. Don't know about the ethereal one, though...my imaginary not-quite-Britain of choice would be Avalon.
Wow. I am so glad you were the one assigned to this woman, and thank goodness she has a chance to be healthy. That's what it is really...a chance to do well.
Red tape sucks.
I have had personal expereince of the red tape too. It always strikes me that they want to wear you down as it is easier and cheaper than actually dealing with the 'problem'.
I am glad you were able to help this woman. I think some people forget what they are there to do, which is to provide a service to people, who sometimes need help, rather than support unhelpful processes for the sake of it.
Balbulican.....I would love to visit Avalon....I wonder if I would feel the mysticism and mystery of the place.
layla....red tape surely sucks, and yet we keep creating more and more of it. it's best to keep a big pair of scissors on hand at all times ;)
bob-kat....you hit the nail on the head. in the long run, I also believe it is a financial cost saving measure. how pathetic that is, eh?
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